TY - JOUR PY - 1997// TI - 'Too early, too late': endings in psychotherapy - an attachment perspective JO - British journal of psychotherapy A1 - Holmes, Jeremy SP - 159 EP - 171 VL - 14 IS - 2 N2 - Endings in psychoanalytic psychotherapy are often problematic, especially in publicly-funded therapies. Endings may be premature or delayed -?too soon?or?too late?. This paper looks at some parallels between endings in literature and endings in psychotherapy; considers the gender bias in Freud's?Analysis Terminable and Interminable?; introduces evidence from psychotherapy research; and puts forward an attachment-informed approach to ending, based on the distinction between avoidant and ambivalent attachment and how this may be played out by both therapist and patient in the transference-countertransfence matrix. A controlling therapist with an avoidant patient may end?too early?, an over-empathic therapist with an ambivalent patient may end?too late?. Clinical examples illustrate these theoretical points.
LA - en SN - 0265-9883 UR - http://dx.doi.org/10.1111/j.1752-0118.1997.tb00367.x ID - ref1 ER -